Newlyweds having their first dance - the bride is holding the groom's face in a loving embrace.

10 ALTERNATIVE FIRST DANCE SONGS

Newlyweds having their first dance - the bride is holding the groom's face in a loving embrace.

If you’re sick of hearing John Legend and Ed Sheeran as first dance songs, you’ve come to the right place.

No shade to those guys, they can definitely write a first dance anthem, but as this is Alt Wedding Co., I thought I’d make a list of my top 10 alternative options for first dance songs!

Music is a huge part of Alt Wedding Co., (especially considering it was founded by the photographer of Slam Dunk Festival for over a decade!), and I LOVE when our couples choose a song that truly reflects their relationship and taste.

Let’s go!

A romantic shot of newlyweds in front of a wall of fairylights.

The Only Exception – Paramore

It wouldn’t be an alternative wedding song list without this classic. It obviously had to be #1!

You Had Me At Hello – A Day To Remember

The title and lyrics say it all… And you can’t go wrong with a classic ADTR tune.

Always – Blink 182

A little more upbeat, but the message is just as full of that love you have.

Want You Bad – The Offspring

This one’s for the groovers. It’s not a slow-dancer, but it is an absolute banger.

Newlyweds boogie down for their first dance with a band in the background

All That I’ve Got – The Used

Classic emo anyone? Just like Paramore, this one couldn’t not be included in our list of alternative wedding songs.

I Only Wanna Talk To You – The Maine

The best part about this song is that you can have this version, or the slower acoustic version! They’re both perfect for your first dance song.

Hear You Me – Jimmy Eat World

If anyone else is a lover of the classic 90’s movie A Cinderella Story, this one has two reasons to be your first dance song.

Forever Yours – Grayscale

Perfect tempo, perfect lyrics.

Newlyweds embrace on the dancefloor as love heart shaped lights fall on them.

Follow You – Bring Me The Horizon

“You could drag me through hell if it meant I could hold your hand… I will follow you”. 

Emo love song at its finest 🖤

Rain – Sleep Token 

‘When I open my eyes to the future, I can hear you say my name’ 

Vessel has a way with words, just capsulating love in so many ways. 

Whether you choose a song that gets people dancing, or a classic emo love ballad, choose one that fits you and your new life partner perfectly 🖤

If you’re thinking of having live music at your wedding, check out Alt Wedding Fair’s music directory!

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July 27, 2026